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July 2016
Miss Nora
Ask Miss Nora

Witness Protection Program

Perhaps she’s lonely. Maybe she’s used to full-time activities or large gatherings and has moved away from the throng and misses the connection such events gave her. It also sounds as though she might be trying to engage the neighbors in similar camaraderie.

Pilarski
Deal Me In

Are Players Falling in Love with this Machine, Or Is this Just a Passing Attraction?

Some players actually respond to the looks and personalities of these virtual dealers. It is one thing to have an affection for a machine that offers a decent return, another when players develop a love interest in an avatar. There's "into you," and then there is "head-over-heels gaga." I have seen female Table Master virtual dealers tip a man over that edge.

June 2016
Lynch
Silver Screen, Golden Years

Clifton Webb in Stars and Stripes Forever

In real life, he was a renaissance man composer of scores of songs, operettas, even wrote novels and articles. In the movie, he wants to play his romantic ballads, but the public prefers his marches.

McFarren

Finding the Right Retirement Community

You could also compare today's retirement communities to college campuses for seniors. They usually have an exercise room, a game room and an abundance of free weekly classes that teach everything from crafts to foreign languages, meditation, and how to write short stories and memoirs.

Miss Nora
Ask Miss Nora

Episodic Anguish

Instead of seeing this as an awkward situation, perhaps you should recognize that your husband actually relishes in the election year hullabaloo. Maybe he feels vibrant only when he’s engaged in intelligent dialogue with people he’d otherwise not have motivation to talk to.

Rose
The Midnight Gardener

Organic Weed Control

A solution of a quart of vinegar, two tablespoons of salt and a teaspoon of dish soap sprayed or poured onto thin weeds will kill them within a few days. This solution will also harm any plant it touches, and can make the surrounding soil toxic, so use it only in extreme situations, or on weeds growing in between pavers or through decorative gravel.

Pilarski
Deal Me In

Betting Patterns Won’t Change Casino Advantage

As for playing against shuffle machines, consider me not a fan. My beef against a continuous shuffler is that they invariably favor the house because more hands are dealt per hour when the dealer does not have to stop and shuffle the cards. From the casino’s perspective, time is money.

Reed
Life Now

Get it Fixed

If an item does not find utilization during a designated interim by necessity, banishment is essential. This technique gets rid of a lot of clutter. If one doesn't delete it, someone else will be required to toss it. Is it worth passing on to someone?

May 2016
Ambord
Dollar Sense

Buried in Old Paperwork? Got the Urge to Purge but Afraid to Get Rid of Documents?

Individual Retirement Account (IRA) statements. The IRS requires that you keep this documentation while you have money in the accounts. Even after you close the accounts, keep for the statute of limitations on the relevant tax returns.

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Real estate records. Keep all records related to property you own –like costs to improve, insurance claims, refinancing documents, etc. – until at least three years after you sell the property and have reported the sale or disposition on your tax return.

Ambord

The Annual Dilemma… What Will You Buy Mom for Mother’s Day?

Reading a book on an electronic device lets the reader adjust the font, the brightness and the contrast, making reading more comfortable. Many also come with audio for those who can no longer read.

Miss Nora
Ask Miss Nora

Right Time to Downsize

Obviously, your children fear that you might be depressed and waiting for your own death, taken advantage of, or regret your decision to reduce your lifestyle once it’s all done and dusted.

Cappellino
At the Core

Hotel Living - A Charmed Life for Our Second Half

Hotels offer an independent lifestyle that’s neither annoyingly intrusive nor fully alone. The loose interconnectedness of a hotel’s population, combined with its industry’s emphasis on hospitality, serve as effective antidote to the boredom, sometimes loneliness, that often accompanies retirement.

Kaderli
Passport Perspectives

Is it Work or Is it Passion?

Once you leave the mainstream labor-for-paycheck world and become financially independent, aren’t you free to choose what you do with your time? When is something considered work, and when are you pursuing a passion?

Lynch
Silver Screen, Golden Years

Movie Stars on the Summer Stock Stage

The lure of the stage is very strong for actors who are passionate about the workshop atmosphere, about improving their skills, immediate audience reaction, and the thrill of the flying-by-the-seat-of-your-pants experience that isn't found in the controlled environment of a film set.

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